Your Questions
Sex-positive means that we view sexuality in all its (legal) forms as a natural and healthy part of life. Our sex-positive parties are not swinger parties! It’s about the music, the dancing, the party, and creating a space where people can express their sexuality in a safe environment. This also includes sexual acts. It is of the utmost importance that everyone involved in such acts gives their explicit, enthusiastic, and ongoing consent to these acts.
Once you step through our doors, everyday life stays outside—and so does your everyday outfit. Admission is reserved for those who know how to dress—or undress.
What we want to see:
Fetish, kink, and boldness! Come dressed in black, colorful, shiny, or sparkly—seduce yourself.
Harnesses, vinyl and leather, latex, fishnet, bondage, body jewelry, and anything else you can think of.
No entry for street clothes, traditional costumes, uniforms, or formal wear.
Check out the dress code inspiration – nudity and underwear aren’t outfits, but they can become ones! To avoid confusion with the Awa team – please no glowing accessories!
To avoid stress at the door, there are opportunities to get feedback on your outfit in advance!
You don’t necessarily have to run to the nearest erotic store to stock up on outfits. Sometimes a trip to the hardware store will do the trick, or you can have your loved ones treat you to a custom-made harness from “Verschnallt.” Or you can grab a needle and scissors and transform a basic piece from the depths of your closet or from a thrift store into a unique party outfit. Or you can tie your outfit yourself. With a little courage and creativity, the possibilities are virtually endless. (And a little tip for all cis men reading this: If you’re ready to move beyond heteronormative gender norms, your selection is actually much wider than the men’s section of fashion chains would have you believe.)
No-Photo-Policy
We don’t have any peepholes, which means: strict no-photo policy!
If you don’t arrive with your phone cameras already tape-covered, we’ll do it at the entrance. There will be a Photo Corner where you can have souvenir photos taken from 1–2 a.m. Beyond that, there will be no photographers on site. Party freely, without worrying about being mocked on social media the next day or ending up in private photo albums.
Follow us on social media – go through the application process on time and thoroughly – and once you receive positive feedback, purchase your ticket online.
You’re also welcome to sign up for our newsletter – that way, you’ll always be up to date!
Awareness means paying attention! That’s why we have an Awareness Team at our events and a zero-tolerance policy toward assaultive behavior. To create a safe space, we also have an application process that attendees must complete before the events. We collaborate with awaGraz on this.
Consent is voluntary.
Consent is valid for the moment.
Consent can be withdrawn at any time.
Consent is unambiguous.
A yes is a yes, a no is a no, and anything in between is also a clear no. Respecting others’ boundaries is a fundamental requirement for being welcome with us.
Unfortunately, we cannot make Zimmer 03 barrier-free. You can find more information below!
We don’t know yet whether we’ll end up with a monogamous relationship with the venue or a polyamorous arrangement with different venues. In any case, it’s important to us as a collective to remain independent—which also means staying open to exploring other or additional venues.
Yes, you can pay by card at the bar—but unfortunately not at our donation box or the coat check. We still recommend that you bring cash.
YES! Please bring a tote bag for your clothes.
No! Tickets can only be purchased in advance after your application has been approved.
Barrier-free access:
We were unable to find a barrier-free venue for our “Zimmer 03.” We won’t sugarcoat it—we simply couldn’t make it happen. The venue is located on the first floor, is accessible only by stairs, and the restrooms are not wheelchair-accessible.
If personal assistance is necessary or desired for participation in the event—for example, due to a disability, chronic illness, or neurodiversity—please feel free to send us a message! Assistance providers as defined by the BBG (German Federal Act on the Promotion of the Integration of People with Disabilities) naturally have free access—we just need to know in advance so we can plan accordingly.
Strobe lights are used on the main floor. If you know you have epilepsy and are sensitive to flashing lights, we recommend that you avoid this area. (The bar area / 2nd floor has a less stimulating environment.)
We know that not everything can be planned; situations and personal limits can sometimes be misjudged. That’s absolutely okay! If you feel uncomfortable in a situation, you can contact the Awareness Team (identifiable by their string lights) at any time. There is a supervised retreat room where you can talk with the Awareness Team and find some peace and quiet. If you need professional emergency assistance, our Awareness Team has contacts and phone numbers available.
Still got a question?
If you have any questions about our event, feel free to contact us!
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